Can I step on my soap box for a minute?
There is one thing that bothers me about [some of] the adoption community…
Although I am pro-adoption and am passionate about it, I don’t believe its for everyone and its certainly not the solution to the orphan crisis. I don’t agree with the statement that “if [this number of] Christians adopted, there would be no orphans in the world.” There may be no orphans, but there would be a lot of unhappy children and families out there. You have to be called. Committed. Wholeheartedly. Because it brings unique challenges and joys. I’m not saying that those that do it are holier-than-thou or called to a higher calling. Not at all. We are not “doing a noble thing” by adopting. I’m just trying to say that, like anything, its not for everyone. What is right for one family, is not necessarily the same for another. God grows each family as HE sees fit. Nor should one put that expectation on another, like “why don’t they just adopt?”
James 1:27 is often misinterpreted too. We are not all called to adopt the orphans, but we are ALL called to CARE for them. There are many ways to do this. Adoption is only one of them. I think this blogger says it so well and does a better job expressing what I’m poorly attempting to. I’m probably coming across a lot stronger than I intended to as well. Oops! :)
Okay, I’m stepping down now. :)